Last month of being single and I decided to take a break from watching anime or any other series and movies. I just read some manga, this is to prepare for the wedding, including the messages and the vows. I'll resume probably next month after the wedding hype has settled down.
Here are the highlights of November.
Send out invitations
We started sending our invitations to our Family and friends. Of course, for the principal sponsors, we send out official hard copy invitations and for the rest of our friends, they got received the virtual invitation. We also created a Facebook event for the other updates.
Meeting with Pastor Jun
We finally had our meeting with our on-the-day coordinator and with Pastor Jun. Pastor Jun guided us with the ceremony proper and some additional elements for the ceremony, like the groom's bible reading and Pastor Jun's proclamation.
Meeting with Host
We also had our final meeting with the host at Leanel's Garden. It was a nice and smooth day to finalize things. The photo above is from the Photo/Video team from the wedding on-site at the time.
Food Tasting
We finalized the food, we ordered some choices so we can pick our favorites.
Bridal Shower and Bachelorette Party
Initially planned as Bridal Shower by Jasmin's bridesmaid, ended up having a Bachelorette party as well. Jasmin does not really expect of having one but to her surprise, her girls showed her love.
The event took place in Pacita, a really nice events place. There's a pool, a house with 1 large room and an outside area that can be used for parties. It was a really really nice day, we were so happy and our friends bought food and drinks. Prepare some surprise materials, like the balloons and other stuff.
We appreciate the effort, I am surprised as well seeing the boys around. I really thought that this is just for Jas. They extended the party to me as well.
The games are fun and exciting. There were video greetings from important people in our lives, mostly from those abroad. I really hope that they could join us at our wedding but it's okay, we felt their love and happiness for us. I never really thought that many people love us. We really appreciate their effort and all.
I really enjoy answering questions from them. They had this different cards that they can reference in asking us questions. Some were funny, interesting, and serious. Of course, I answered many of them in a silly way. That's how I roll. But there was this one question that I'm surprised that got claps. I don't remember the exact question but it was a God-glorifying answer.
God moves in a mysterious way, it's not a cliche or a really nice quote. But it's a real thing, He is a real deal. Jassiee and I prayed for many months, even years. We asked for signs, prayed specific prayers and we do our fasting.
I believe that many people use to forget how God answered the prayers. We get blinded by our future in wanting more. We prayed to God for a specific job and a good-paying salary. We never realized that it's getting answered as the day goes by and everything leads to our wedding.
I personally, talked to Jas about having a home before getting married since I'm against having a grand wedding while having nowhere to lay our heads. We are lost along the way on how to set the budget and all until she convinced me to set aside the home and prepare for the wedding first.
We initially plan on staying in one of my parents' apartments. Then, on the week that we are about to fix the house, God surprised us with a home of our own. It's nice, it's big and we know that God will provide.
I also shared how God worked with the budget for our wedding. Just a few months ago, we were struggling on how to complete it all but yes, He is good and this is all for His glory.
29th.
We were too busy and excited about our wedding and I really forgot how to celebrate my birthday. Well, I don't have a plan, my eyes are already set on the wedding already. I'm just thankful for all the blessings that God showered on me over the past year. Me getting married in my 29th year is a really nice touch set by God.
Tomorrow isn't sure and I'm just blessed to have another year to my life.
//NovemberRain
//sebajisoka
























