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Thursday, April 30, 2026

April

Summer, Stories, and Small Moments

April is hot! 

Road trips, beach, stories, and some reunion. 

It was tiring, very expensive, and memorable, I must say. I always want to post about these stories in my blog to maintain connections to these memories. 


Holy Week in Matabungkay


For Holy Week, we went to Matabungkay for another summer getaway. Beach, island, relaxation.

But honestly, it was so hot, and how can you relax if you have a toddler?

We went to an island to chill for a bit, but the heat was almost unbearable. Instead of swimming, we mostly stayed in the shade while the kids enjoyed the water. Kean played in the sand for a long time that he did not even take his afternoon nap.

But come to think of it, seeing my kid happy is something that I can be proud of. Not everyone can afford this. I'm thankful to the Lord for all the blessings. 

After that, we headed to a beach resort where we stayed overnight. The place was peaceful at night. The sound of the waves, tired bodies after a long day under the sun, and everyone slowly quieting down after all the activities.

 


Angrydobo – Chef’s Night




I booked a dinner date at Angrydobo for their Chef’s Night.

Oddly enough, it was our first time there. We had never even tried their regular menu before, yet somehow our first experience there was already a special event featuring none other than Judy Ann Santos and Chef Sonny Mariano.

And yes, we got starstruck.

Judy Ann Santos was kind, warm, and honestly glowing in person. We even got photos with them, which still feels surreal when I think about it.

But beyond meeting celebrities, what I appreciated the most was the quality time with Jassie.

We spent most of the night talking about the food being served to us because almost every dish felt unfamiliar in a good way. It was a Filipino-Spanish degustation menu, so there were flavors that felt familiar, but presented in ways I probably wouldn’t normally try on my own.








Some dishes were strange at first bite, but memorable afterward.

The food was genuinely amazing.

Would I do it again? Absolutely.

 



Swimming in Laiya, Batangas


After months of planning, cancellations, and “tuloy ba talaga?” messages, I finally got to spend time with my friends again: Edgar, Maiqui, and Jona.







This time, instead of our usual mall hangouts, we went to Laiya, Batangas.


And honestly, that already made it feel different.

Since I’m from Laguna and the only one with a car, I became the official driver for the trip. House-to-house pickup pa talaga.

I was nervous because it meant driving through EDSA alone, something I’m still not fully comfortable with. But somehow, experiences like this slowly build confidence.

I picked up Jona first while it was still dark outside. We looked for a place to eat because she insisted on treating me to breakfast. After that, we picked up Maiqui and Navi, then headed toward Batangas to meet Edgar.

Of course, there was a coffee stop somewhere in between because no road trip is complete without coffee.

Eventually, we arrived at Edgar’s beautiful home and finally met Liza. Their house honestly made me imagine having a home somewhere in the south someday. Quiet. Spacious. Peaceful.

After preparing everything, we headed to the beach resort.

Long drive. Hot weather. Random stories inside the car.

When we arrived, we mostly ate, talked, sang songs, and played around with cameras. Maiqui and Edgar had new cameras, so naturally we spent time shooting photos and trying random creative shots. I also got to enjoy using my own camera again.

It felt nice being around people who enjoy the same things.

After a few hours, we left the resort, grabbed coffee again somewhere along the way, then started the long drive home.

We dropped Edgar off first and said goodbye to Liza, then drove all the way back to Manila to bring Maiqui and Jona home safely.

There were still stories inside the car during the drive home.

Honestly, I missed this kind of friendship.

I didn’t really grow up with a lot of friends, so having this circle now feels special to me. Meeting up only once in a while somehow makes the moments more meaningful.

Adult friendships are hard to maintain.

That’s why I appreciate this one.


Went to Church for VG

We also attended church for VG again.

There’s always something comforting about being there. Familiar faces, conversations, worship, and just being reminded to slow down spiritually when life starts becoming too busy.

Sometimes you don’t realize how mentally tired you are until you finally sit still.


Kean’s Field Trip – Sta. Elena Farm

Dad life continues.


Kean recently started school, and only a few weeks later, we were already joining him for a field trip at Sta. Elena Farm.

As tiring as it was, it was honestly so much fun.

Kean was everywhere.

Walking around nonstop. Exploring every corner. Looking at animals with pure excitement like everything was the greatest thing he had ever seen.

He rode a horse.
Got carried by a carabao ride.
Fed animals with grass.
Watched his mom ride the zipline.

And through all of it, he looked genuinely happy.

As a parent, moments like this hit differently.

You get tired physically, yes. Your feet hurt, your back hurts, and you just want to sit down sometimes. But seeing your child experience joy so openly somehow makes all the exhaustion worth it.

It’s a tiring season of life.

But it’s also a beautiful one.




And honestly, I love this little family that we’re building.


//sebajisoka

Wednesday, April 29, 2026

5 Centimeters per Second

I watched another movie again, but this time, it felt familiar.

I watched it at SM Muntinlupa, which honestly made the experience more comforting compared to watching in Sta. Rosa.  

This time, I watched 5 Centimeters per Second by Makoto Shinkai. The live-action one.

I almost forgot what actually happened in the movie, but somehow, the feeling stayed with me all these years. And as I watched it again, the memories slowly came back scene by scene. 

The movie still hits the same. Quiet. Haunting. Beautiful.

There’s something about Makoto Shinkai films that make ordinary moments feel heavy in a good way. The distance, the silence, the passing of time—it all feels too real.

It’s a good movie.

I love it.






//sebajisoka

Tuesday, March 31, 2026

March

Small Changes, Quiet Seasons

Lately, life has been full of small adjustments.

Not the dramatic kind that suddenly changes everything overnight, but the quiet ones that slowly make life feel lighter, healthier, and a little more manageable.

Schedule Change

After being on the graveyard shift for a long time, my manager finally transferred me to the morning shift.

Honestly, I’m really grateful for it.

I still have a Sunday shift, which is not ideal as I will miss the Victory Group, but overall, this setup is much better for my health. My body has been struggling with the night shift for a while now, especially with the recent lab results that needed attention.

 


Church Alone

There was a time I went to church alone.

Usually, we’re together as a family, especially with Kean around, so it felt different.

Quieter.

Less distractions.

Since Kean stayed home, I was able to focus more during worship and really listen to the Word.  

Not that I don’t enjoy being with my family there, because I do, and I missed them during that time.  

It reminded me that worship feels different when your mind is fully present.


Badminton Mornings

We’ve also been playing badminton here in San Pedro, Laguna.

Several Saturday mornings already.

It’s fun, exhausting, and honestly something I didn’t expect to enjoy this much. I’m not even good yet. It's my wife who's really good. 

 




Kean Started Playschool



We enrolled Kean in playschool.

To be honest, the first few days were hard for him. Everything was new. New people, new environment, new routines. There were tears and loud cries.

It's hard to watch, but as he goes by, when he's feeling better, being familiar, it's beautiful

It’s weird seeing Kean slowly become more independent in a way. You feel proud and emotional. 

Date at Sobra Café

We also had a date at Sobra Café.

Just the two of us.

We left Kean at home so we could spend some quiet time together. 

And honestly, we needed that. We need moments like this as a couple. 

 

The food was good and it's Sobra. 


Birthday Celebration at BGC

We celebrated my mom and dad’s birthdays at Six Doors in BGC.

Buffet. Unlimited food. It was good.

We spent time eating together, talking, laughing, and just enjoying the day as a family. After that, we went shopping for clothes for them, grabbed coffee, and walked around BGC for a bit.

They also got to ride the car, which made the trip more fun.

 

Photo Dumplings






//sebajisoka

Saturday, February 28, 2026

February


Lab Result Got Better

After a month of discipline, diet adjustments, and taking my medicine seriously, my lab results improved.

Not perfect. But better. I was devastated at first because at first the result got worse after all the things that I did. To my surprise, I gave the doctor incorrect data. 

We adjusted almost everything this past month. The food I eat. The portions. The timing. Even the medications. It hasn’t been easy. This is still a long road, but at least now I know it’s working.

Hoping for better results next time.


LeadCon

We had the chance to attend LeadCon again.

This time, we left Kean at home so we could fully immerse ourselves. No distractions. Just listening, taking notes, reflecting.

The focus was on evangelism and discipleship. It was a good reminder to live our lives in reaching out to the lost intentionally. To multiply.

Sometimes you don’t realize how much you need that until you’re there.


Ocean Park – Valentine’s Day

On Valentine’s Day, we chose family time. 



We went to Ocean Park. Just us, walking around, watching marine life, letting Kean explore. Me too, I enjoy it since it has interesting fish I didn't know existed. 

I’m happy that Kean's comfortable with crowds. My only struggle? Kean is so makulit.

Once he sets his eyes on something, that’s it. No one can stop him. He wants all the toys. play all the arcade games. And of course, only the machines with prize gifts.  

It was tiring. But it was a good kind of tired. 



Went to Joshua’s – Bulacan






First time dropping by in Bulacan with KIA Sonnet. We visited Joshua’s home, and it felt good to see almost everyone complete again. There’s something different when friendships continue even outside the church. (Well, we attend different churches now)

They’re a fun company to be with. Easy laughter.  



It was also nice meeting Joshua’s wife and kid. We’re all in different seasons now, but somehow still connected. I’m grateful I get to be part of that circle.


Kean’s First Haircut

After two years, Kean finally had his first haircut.

Two years of curls. Two years of “sayang.” Two years of delaying it. It's kinda sad, I miss his long hair but it's fun because her granda cried. Hahhaa!


//Feb

//sebajisoka

Saturday, January 31, 2026

January

January wasn’t easy. It came in heavy. We lost our beloved Shiro.


1.7.2025.




It still feels unreal, no more fur floating around, no one's welcoming us anymore whenever we arrive. The house feels different now, quieter, emptier.  

 

Sunflower




Our company kick-off party at Shangri-La Hotel happened during this time. I met new faces, saw old workmates again, shared laughter, amazing food, and conversations. Seeing our boss, so warm, kind. This reminded me how blessed I am to be part of this company.  



Isabela




Because of a sudden adjustment in my schedule, we were able to push through with a family trip to Isabela, with both my family and my in-laws. More than a 10-hour drive, the longest one yet for the Kia Sonet. Zigzag roads that tested our patience and driving skills at night. We were on the road all night, Papa and I taking turns driving, fighting off sleep by eating a lot of nuts.


Find Kean


While there, we attended a couple’s birthday party—simple, warm, and full of familiar faces. Nothing grand, but enough to make the long drive feel worth it.


Double Jollibee Party Day

The day started early.

Hannah’s Birthday Party




9:30 AM at Jollibee Madrigal. I was happy to see my churchmates and the VG group there. It felt familiar. I joined the games (because I was forced), laughed a lot, and somehow ended up winning a Starbucks GC. Let's freaking go!




Then came the second round.

Rayna’s Birthday Party


1:30 PM, same place. Tine is coming back with her family and her baby. I joined the games again and I was forced again… and lost this time. We danced budots in a shameful way possible. We were there with Cath too, just enjoying the chaos, the noise, the kids. 


Got a new lovely lens. 




I thought my camera broke. Well, it kind of did. The flash isn’t working properly anymore, and that honestly made me sad.

So I started looking for a new camera. I was already getting drawn in, convincing myself, until reality kicked in and I realized I couldn’t afford it.

Instead, I bought a new Sigma lens and a detachable flash.

Nice.



...

In the middle of all of this. My lab results came back.

They were a problem;
I need to take action now
. No excuses. No delays. I was talking to my doctor and it's sad. He told me to take the steps to change my lifestyle because my life will not be long if I continue my habits.

So I have to change.

My lifestyle.
My food choices.

I'm taking tons of medications and there are tons of side effects. I can’t keep eating like nothing’s wrong. I can’t keep using food as comfort while ignoring the consequences. I can't forget what the doctor told me: use food as a tool, not a reward. 


Dumplings:


  

 //sebajisoka